Wednesday, October 20, 2010

We Keep Winning

To all who helped with Waeger Cup VI....THANK YOU!!!! We raised close to $15,000 for our scholarship program and blew past my expectations (which isn't easy to do!). We had a fantastic day at the Links of Gettysburg. The weather was great, the golf was better! We had so many people who donated and volunteered... too many to fit in the program this year! I hope to have pictures up as soon as I find the attachment to my camera :)

As I was standing up in front of everyone at dinner (175 people!), I was really struck by something. First off, I was so honored to be representing this wonderful community that comes together every year to support NCCF. Most people come back year after year, and have tirelessly supported our mission. One thing I've learned... never doubt the power of a small group of people can change the world (thanks, Margaret Mead!). My "job" gets easier each year because so many people step up to help... and it isn't always with a big check. They tell Dan's story, and next thing you know- others want to help in any way. So I'm going to refer to myself as chief snowball roller... just making that snowball and letting it loose from the top of the hill, and watching as it gets bigger and bigger the further it goes.

Second, and I said this at Dan's memorial on Fed Hill last March.... it only takes a spark to get a fire going. At Dan's funeral, the priest related Dan's diagnosis to God taking Dan into a dark tunnel, and leaving him with one single candle. With his candle, Dan lit those of others, until the whole tunnel was glowing. He made others feel less lonely, less dark in their own lives. And he showed us how one person can make a difference and keep making a difference. I hope that for those of us that support NCCF- when it seems a little stressful or we aren't doing enough- I hope we remember the power of one. We've given out 50 scholarships from an organization that was borne out of one person's thought to help others with less than he had. Dan knew nothing about cancer. He knew nothing about setting up a foundation. He knew nothing about giving out scholarships. He knew nothing about raising money. But he figured it out. He made an effort. And we are all figuring it out, learning as we go. I hope we take a step back and acknowledge that without cumulative efforts, 50 people would have a harder time staying in school. And those 50 people will touch so many more lives, sharing their story.

SO.... thank you all!!! We are doing amazing things. We will continue to do amazing things. I will always be here to help, but I can't do it alone.

Things don't go wrong and break your heart so you can become bitter and give up. They happen to break you down and build you up so you can be all that you were intended to be.


Ruth said...

Meg: I'm so glad you're blogging again. This was my first Waeger Cu[, but the first, I hope, of many. It was a greast day and I am glad to have played a very small part. I was so moved by the stories I read in the scholarship applications. That was my most meaningful contribution.

Anonymous said...

You did an absolutely OUTSTANDING job orchestrating the Waeger Cup this year. I keep telling people how absolutely smoothly it ran this year. We LOVED the links at Gettysburg, the food, the prizes and the company. We're hoping its at Gettysburg again next year. Congrats on a wonderful turn out and 15 scholarships! If you need help next spring reading scholarships I am willing to help...and will do a much better job at actually getting back to you.
Let me know if there is anything else I can do.
Lee and Karin Geraci

Anonymous said...

Hi Meg,

I know you know "us" from my son, Scott's, Stage IV cancer journey. Just wondering if you have any info as to what college assistance is available for teens with Stage IV cancer. I know that what Dan so wonderfully started for young adults really doesn't apply to Scott, but he will be 18 in November. Just curious as to what the rules are for scholarship applications for college for young adults. We still have all faith that God will be there for Scott to have the college experience, even though he was diagnosed at stage IV at age 14. He is going on 18 and I know Dan would be so proud of Scott's determination and fight. My email is